Talk to women who’ve had abortions, and you’ll hear horror stories about male partners who try to force them into a decision, downplay the situation or ghost because they can’t deal with it.
Men these days push women to abort by rejecting responsibility because they most likely see women as a sexual object. All relationship these days are based just on a one night stand. Men no longer fear, for they know if not “You” then the “Other”.
It really gets me enraged when a man sits in judgment of a woman who has to go through an abortion. I just don’t see how a man can speak to this issue at all. Why should men need to establish any type of position at all on a subject that is clearly feminine by nature? I know many are already cowering away from this article in fear of hell’s fire.
Unprotected sex?? At one point of the other, we’ve all had it right (haven’t we?)
But it’s not the same in case of all, few get away with it and few pay for it all their life. For some, that decision to have an abortion is a turning point in their relationship that makes it stronger, while for others it can be a critical opportunity which leaves your relationship toxic for life.
Men don’t realize that sexual objectification leads to a lot of psychological effect, it gives a women a lot of negative self-image about her.
Abortion these days have become so common that men no longer understand the value of “Fatherhood”!
They are willing risk a lifetime just for the sake of that one night.
Another interesting thing about abortion is that many couples don’t remain together after making this choice. Abortion doesn’t seem to be the glue that holds a relationship together but tear’s it apart. Feelings of betrayal and hurt can separate two hearts forever. But does it really affect men? No, it doesn’t. They are still looking to just get laid.
Men who are motivated by pleasure above all else simply might not be ready to pursue more meaningful relationships yet.